"Digital minimalism is a philosophy that helps you question what digital communication tools (and behaviors surrounding these tools) add the most value to your life. It is motivated by the belief that intentionally and aggressively clearing away low-value digital noise, and optimizing your use of the tools that really matter, can significantly improve your life."

– Cal Newport

"Digital minimalism is a philosophy that helps you question what digital communication tools (and behaviors surrounding these tools) add the most value to your life. It is motivated by the belief that intentionally and aggressively clearing away low-value digital noise, and optimizing your use of the tools that really matter, can significantly improve your life."

– Cal Newport

The Home Stretch

July 29, 2026

You might think I’m racing to finish my latest book because there’s a publication date looming or a publicity campaign to manage. Wrong. I’m racing because I’m seventy-three. At this stage of my life, the home stretch has less to do with deadlines than with not wasting time. The irony, of course, is that I’m…

Feel more efficient? Or more alive? 

July 13, 2026

It depends who’s asking Last week, after I shared Him on Facebook—my essay about my relationship with ChatGPT as a thinking partner rather than the digital affair I’m conducting behind my husband’s back—one particular comment stayed with me. It came from Katia, a French children’s author I met nearly twenty years ago in Hyderabad, India. We had…

Him

July 6, 2026

Rodney was halfway through his Manhattan the other evening when I made the mistake of telling him about yet another conversation I’d had with ChatGPT at the library that morning. I’d gone there convinced I was writing a chapter about high blood pressure. An hour later, I realized I wasn’t. More accurately, Chat had spent…

What Self-Publishing Taught Me About AI

June 11, 2026

The dog in the photo accompanying this post appears to have appointed itself Chief Gatekeeper.  Every industry has them. Publishing has agents. Academia has tenure committees. Bookstores have buyers. Social media has influencers. And now the writing world has people conducting purity tests on AI. I’ve spent much of my career bumping into various forms…

Timing is Everything

June 5, 2026

There’s not a parent alive who doesn’t remember the day their child becomes a parent. I don’t mean the day you overhear your son or daughter lecturing their own child. I mean the day they start lecturing you about your behaviour. I’ve had more than a few of those moments in the past year, usually over AI, and usually…

Notes from my 30-day news detox

May 26, 2026

Mad. Sad. Bad. That’s what the news does to me within minutes. In that exact order. Mad about the state of the world. Sad about the behaviour of my fellow human beings (including my own unwillingness to shut it all out). And ultimately very bad about myself. At this particular moment in history, as a…